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Five Basics Steps To Make a Good First Impression in Online Dating and Get The Attention You Desire!

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So, you’ve taken the leap and created a profile… now what? Let’s look at the five basic steps of making a great first impression and getting the attention you deserve!

It’s great that you’re putting yourself out there, but if you don’t have the best possible profile, it’s a bit like going to a bar in your oldest pyjamas. So put a bit of time and a lot of thought into your profile – we promise it will pay off.

1. Make sure you match well with others
While looking at someone’s profile, have you ever wondered how we’ve calculated the match score? We won’t bore you with the details, but this clever feature will help you find your match faster and it only works if your About Me and My Ideal Match
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How to cancel an upcoming date without creating the wrong impression, and rescheduling the date

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When you want to cancel a date like a true gentleman, or lady, the main thing is don’t make assumptions, make sure it’s legit and be nice about it.

The first thing is, you must have a legitimate reason, such as death, or an accident or dismemberment. If you’re just too busy, or you’ve worked too hard, or you’re kind of tired, that’s not going to cut it. Do you want to meet this person or not?

The next thing is you message the other person and say, can I talk to you, is, when is a good time to chat? Because you want to cancel this date by talking to the person in real life. There’s way too much that can be misconstrued. People get assumptive when you’re texting the message, and it just takes a lot more courage, whether you’re a man or a woman, to actually call a person, in person, to cancel a date, or to reschedule. This reflects on a potential future relationship and how tough situations would be managed.

So when you call the other person, the first thing you
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Why do women, and men, go back to abusive partners again and again? Meet Trauma Bonding, aka Stockholm Syndrome

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When we get back with abusive men, and let me talk about trauma bonding for a moment first, trauma bonding simply means that if two people have shared a highly emotional experience together, it gives them a unique bond and perhaps even a false sense of a depth of bond and a false sense of shared history. The more intense the experiences the more deeply it could be said to burn into a person’s unconscious, so if you compare a pleasant evening out between a nice couple, where they go and they have a nice meal, and then they go to the cinema and then they come back, and they have quiet but nice sex for 15-20 minutes and go to sleep in each other’s arms. That’s all very nice and it’s very lovely.
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