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Here is 10 Modern Dating Rules Everyone Should Follow

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How to behave on a date isn’t rocket science, but guidelines certainly help. Brush up and take these modern dating rules on your next romantic adventure.

Today’s dating culture differs vastly from even five years ago. Everything from texting etiquette to when to become intimate makes for a sometimes-confusing modern dating landscape.

Consider these 10 modern dating “rules” to create a bit of a road map helping you reach your destination of a happy, healthy relationship more efficiently.

1. Before you venture to add someone else to your life, be sure you have cleaned your own emotional closets. Nothing destroys even the strongest of connections as pursuing love from a broken place.

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2. If there is someone you are interested in, make the move.<
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How to Avoid the Most Common Mistakes Men Usually Make in Online Dating

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If you’re not having much success with online dating and you’re a man, you’re probably making the same mistakes over and over again.

Nowadays, women are bombarded by men every day on dating sites, and have learned how to filter out the creeps, weirdos, and plain boring guys. Avoid the same mistakes and better your chances of finding a partner online!

Creating a Good Profile

Remember that when creating your profile, less is more. You want to stand out and be memorable without revealing too much. Keep your essays short, punchy, playful, and positive. Reveal enough personal detail to create a quick connection but not so much that you remove the mystery.

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Upload 2 to 5 flattering, but accurate pictures. Resist the temptation t
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So you found the One, but cannot commit?

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People with a fear of commitment may desire to give themselves fully to a relationship, but, perhaps due to past trauma, are afraid of being hurt.

They pull away instead. If you are looking for help with your fear of commitment, it is recommended that you talk to a mental health professional who can help you make sense of your feelings.

While you are working through the issues that created your commitment phobia, consider learning some ways to help navigate the dating world. Or, if you are already in a relationship, you could learn some ways to help work through some of your fears with your significant other.

Discovering the Reasons Behind Your Behavior

Find a therapist. Look for a counselor or social worker who can work with you on exploring your commitment issues. You may want to look for someone who specializes in relationship issues and attachment theory. Make sure they are licensed by a state or national governing bo
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Here are some ideas on How to Date Successfully

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It can be difficult to strike a good balance when dating. How do you appear interested without coming off as desperate or needy? How do you get to know someone without being nosy or rude?

And how do you figure out how a person feels about you — or tell them how you feel about them — without either of you feeling uncomfortable? Dating is a tricky business, but here are some guidelines that’ll keep you successful and in the mix!

Setting Yourself up for Success

Define your expectations. Why are you dating? What are you looking for? Do you want a lifetime commitment, or do you want to live completely in the moment? Whether or not you’re seeking a commitment can make a difference in how you approach dating.

* If you’re dating for fun and companionship, what matters most is how well you get along, right off the bat.
* If you’re seeking a partner, you should be more willing to overlook initial shyness and awkwardness so th
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How to Safely Meet a Guy Through Internet Dating Online

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Internet dating can lead to finding your love, and many times leads to marriage. You can find a friend, or it might lead to disaster and even death.

It is extremely important to heed the “Red Flags” that pop up in your mind when you sense or hear something that just does not seem right about the person on the other end.

You should realize that they may not always be the person that they present over email. Be aware! Be wary! Be alert! Be safe!

Find a dating site. There are many out there, with more new ones starting up often. Find a site that is reputable. Stay away from the sleazy sites. It would be good to find a site that specializes in your interests such as gay dating, black dating, and even specialized religious sites.

Remember that most of the sites will offer you a free trial period. If they ask for your credit card, be assured they will charge you after that trial period ‘unless’ you make sure yo
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How to Write a Love Letter, be it the old fashion way or via email

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Everyone seems to use text messages and emails to communicate to each other these days. So there’s something about a good, old-fashioned love letter—especially a handwritten one—that makes it a rare and special treat.

Love letters are keepsakes that can be held, reread and cherished. They are the perfect gift for someone you love. Writing a love letter is not hard but it takes some time and contemplation to express your true feelings.

Preparing to Write Your Letter
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The A-Z of Dating – P is for photo and profile

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First impressions last, or so the old adage goes, and that means that getting your photo and your profile just right is very important when it comes to online dating. Judging from the feedback we’ve received from members, it seems the most successful approach for both photo and profile is to present yourself in a..
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The A-Z of Dating – M is for marriage

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Marriage might not be what we all want out of life, but here are some happy-ever-after stories from SA Match who did take that trip up the aisle: “We’re completely smitten! I’ve found my soulmate. Buy a hat because I’ve never been so sure that I’ve found ‘The One’! Thank you.” “I just want you..
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Christmas Dating: A survival guide for singles

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The holidays are around the corner and if you’re single or just recovering from a breakup, you might need some extra strength to get over this tough time for singles. Being single at Christmas can be a real battle: you see couples happily holding hands everywhere, family gatherings where questions about your romantic life become..
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The A-Z of Dating – H is for History

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H is for History – a potted history of personal ads Online dating may be a modern phenomenon, but advertising for love goes back centuries. The first classified ads were published within just a few years of the earliest newspapers. This example from the 18th century is typical of the early ‘lonely hearts’ advert: Gentleman..
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The A-Z of Dating – G is for Generosity

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We’re not necessarily talking about money here, but rather, generosity of spirit – the ability to give intangible things such as time, positive thoughts and the benefit of the doubt. That includes understanding if someone is nervous on a first date or not writing them off straight away just because they have a soup stain..
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The A-Z of Dating – F is for First Date Fashion

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You’ve exchanged dozens of emails, perhaps texts and even phone calls, but suddenly reality bites: it’s all very well preparing your best conversational openers and show-stopping anecdotes, but what on earthwill you wear? The key is, of course, to stay cool. But cool doesn’t necessarily mean adopting the latest hipster trends or slavishly following the..
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