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Rejection Sucks – Tips for What to Do When You’ve Been Rejected

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So, you finally gathered up your courage, and… got rejected? Right, first thing you need to do is refocus your thinking. You want to retrain your brain.

When I used to sell real estate, I would make a hundred calls a day, most of those were no’s… it was a numbers game.

So I’d either call a hundred, or till I got to a yes. So there was a lot of rejection and I used to think, okay, every no was closer to yes. You got to really think that way too about rejection, I mean you’re not looking forward to it but if you get rejected really early on, especially early on, you want to thank that person for only wasting this little of my time so that I can move on to really finding my right partner.

The other thing too is that as you’re dating, or getting rejected, you’ll be finding out things that you like and don’t like about people, and perhaps if some of these people are honest with you about why they were not interested, if it’s
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Many people think dating sucks. Here is what to do to make dating fun…

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Dating Sucks… Now why would they feel this way? Well, because they want to create something real. Chances are if you’re reading this article, you want to create something real when it comes to dating. You want to find someone who values you. Find someone who invests in you. Who you can invest in. Someone who you can build something enduring with, but instead here’s what you get. Casual dating, meaningless hookups, and mixed, confusing-ass signals. You do not need to be a psychic to know that an enormous number of people right now feel this…

Now this leaves people very frustrated and it leaves them wondering whether what they’re looking for is actually out there.

We recently ran an exclusive closed door event for clients, that was invite only, and I made them one promise.

I am going to explain all day about how to create a real and lasting relationship, and avoid the casual dating, hookup culture we feel like we’re currently existing in.

Here is a situat
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LADIES ONLY:- Lets have a look at proven techniques for attracting a man

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There are quite a few tried and true techniques for attracting men. Some of them are brand new, others have been around a while.

Be honest and genuine. This is one of the biggest things you can do to attract any man and endear yourself to him. Trust is a huge issue with men, and if he knows you’re honest, he’ll know he can trust you. Also, when you give him compliments he’ll know that you mean it.

Compliment his good qualities. This goes hand-in-hand with honesty. There’s good and bad in everyone, so find the good things and say something nice. Does he have a hooked nose and bushy eyebrows? OK, well maybe you can’t truthfully tell him he’s handsome, but you CAN tell him his face has character, and that’s a good thing.

Don’t come on too strong right at first. Some women love to make a big show of going up to a man they’ve never met and starting the conversation with heavy flirting. While that strategy is certai
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Top 10 tips for a contact request

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In theory, a contact request is just a matter of a click, but you can raise your game if you add a nice personal message. But what should you write? Here are some pointers for that very first message.

1.Say it with words
A contact request says something in itself, but when you receive one, do you really feel that it was meant for you and only you? A few personal words can make all the difference. The exception is when all you want to do is signal your interest – like engaging in eye contact – but would prefer to leave it to the other person to make the first move. There is always a high chance in that case that it will lead to nothing, so it is probably better to take the option of sending an invitation to a Fun Match [Icebreaker].

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Here are 8 Interesting Reasons to Date Someone from Another Country

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When you date someone from another country, it can be exciting, confusing, educational and adventurous. I consider it a relationship with many added bonuses. Whether your partner speaks the same language or grew up on the same continent as you doesn’t change some of the significant patterns you’ll experience.

There are some really wonderful things about dating someone from another country along with obstacles. The horizon goes further in a cross cultural relationship.

1. Romantic Experience
You know that your feelings are true when you date someone from another country. You are both taking risks one way or another to be with each other. Maybe there’s people that don’t understand, family members that miss you while you’re away or issues with visas. When you fall in love with someone from another country, there are lengths you have to take to stay together. You take on different views of a relationship as you not only work on your feeli
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So Ladies are thinking about dating a younger man? Here are some good reasons…

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There are so many reasons to date a dude a few years younger, including: Stamina! The bright, hopeful gaze of a child!

1. He has more energy — and his influence might make you healthier and more productive. Maybe you want to sleep in until 2 p.m. on a lazy Sunday, but he wants to get up, make eggs, run some errands at Home Depot, and have sex with you for 1,000 hours and/or until your vagina Can’t Even.

2. He’s less cynical. Unless he’s had an especially soul-crushing unpaid internship, he’s probably got some beautiful illusions about his promising place in the workforce. And we both know you can use some positivity in your life.

3. He’s eager to please sexually. Not only has he got the energy thing on his side, but it’s unlikely that he’ll be a selfish lover. You’re like the Mrs. Robinson he has to sexually prove himself to! He will listen and possibly take notes! Whatever tips you suggest to him will be i
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SINGLE GUYS:- How to Date a Single Mom

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Dating a single mom can be difficult, especially if you have no kids yourself. Remember, they are women who have baggage, but the potential benefits of having a woman and her kids in your life outweigh the drawbacks.

Her kids come first. You must remember that you are not her first priority. This doesn’t mean that she doesn’t like you. It doesn’t mean that she doesn’t care about your desires. It means that she has children to care for and their needs come first. By recognizing this, you are portraying yourself as a potential father and long-term partner.

Don’t play around with a single mom. This is not gentlemanly! A single mom is in a tough role. They have kids to look out for. If they become an emotional mess, it affects their kids.

Be open and honest. Having a single mom could be a great booty-call, if this is what she wants. Make your intentions known.

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There are 10 essential Flirting Moves you must know

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1) Smiling
You must smile. You probably think you smile now, but you don’t, really. You should practice your smile in the mirror. To be big enough to be noticed, your smile will probably have to be bigger than you are used to.

2) Getting Caught Looking
Most people look away when the object of their desire looks at them. If you want to let that person know you are interested, when they catch you looking, smile, hold eye contact a moment longer, then look away.

3) Waving
A little wave to someone who caught you looking, along with a smile, is a non-intrusive, very flirty way to say “hello.”

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4) Winking
You can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversation. If he or she says something funny, or
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Still struggling to communicate with a girl ?? Here are some Conversation Starters

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The best way to start a conversation with a girl is to be yourself, of course. But what happens when being yourself means being a shy guy? You know exactly what you want to say in your mind, but when you open your mouth nothing… and I mean nothing, comes out.

If it does, then it’s totally weird and the moment and the girl is gone. In that case, who wants to move on? Yeah, you just want to crawl back into the bubble you feel safe and secure in.

Don’t worry, we have some ideas you can use to break the ice and start a conversation with a girl.

Say “Hello”
This word is not so difficult to remember. You practice it almost every day and you should be ready for most responses. Really, women want someone to be real with them. They are tired of the corny pick up lines and just want a guy to have a sincere conversation with. You’ll be surprised where “Hello, how are you doing?” takes you.

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What are the Top 14 Characteristics of a Sexually Confident Woman? Are you one?

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Do you know the “symptoms” of a sexually confident woman? Could you already be one?

Let me give you a check list to see if maybe you have some possible aspects of a sexual confident woman:

1. Women who not only enjoy their sexuality, but actively pursues erotic and sensual pleasures.

2. Women who do not feel dependent on their partner for the expression of their sexuality.

3. Women who are confident about their relationship with their own body.

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4. Women who have an understanding or desire to understand sex skills — and have cultivated the belief that they are “good at sex” and they seek out information to give themselves more sexual self confidence and expression.

5. Women
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Here are the Top 3 signs your online dating match really likes you:

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It can be hard to tell whether someone you’ve been chatting to online is genuinely interested in you. Here are our tips for sorting the frank from the fickle.

Roughly seven million UK residents are currently using dating sites, according to a recent study of online dating services . Yet, only two thirds – 66% – of online daters say they have actually gone on a date with someone they’ve met through a dating site or app. So what’s stopping the other third from meeting up?

It could come down to the quality of conversation in the early stages of chatting online. Sometimes it’s hard to tell how genuine someone’s questions are, or how deep their interest lies. They say ‘hi’, you reply. But then it’s radio silence. So you reply again, “Hello?”, still nothing. Other times, you’ve been chatting away for weeks, but pinning down a date for that first big meet proves impossible. Sound familiar? Here are some tips for sorting the frank from the fick
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The million dollar question: Is there a difference between online romance and a real relationship?

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Online dating is a booming industry and chat rooms are brimming with individuals of all age looking for their next meaningful relationship.

Online dating is quickly becoming part of everyday life with apps on our phones making it easy to connect with people closer than we could ever imagine and to tick all the right boxes before we even meet with them.

Being brought up with online dating and choosing partners through adult chat rooms or an online profile is potentially how future relationships will be created. Even if we do meet someone through ‘traditional’ means in work or via a friend of a friend, I bet the first thing you do is go online and ‘check them out’.

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So is there a place for online romance or does nothing compare to a real relationship?
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