What we all know about online dating is that it’s like what my friend calls it, ‘dumpster diving for diamonds‘. You’re going to have to go through a lot of people before you find that right gem, to be totally honest.
So, if you only have a connection in chemistry with one person in a hundred, you’re going to have to go on a lot of dates. You’re going to have to filter, and what you must keep in mind is that people who are just coming out of relationships, they go online…
People who are thinking about coming out of relationships, they go online. People who are serious about getting into a relationship go online. So there’s just a lot of filtering needed. If you know that ahead of time then you can go into every date, into every communication, with a little bit more light heartedness. So think of it as fun. Enjoy it. Go into every date with curiosity and the only expectation is to be curious about the other person. That’s it!
You’re going to have fun, you’re going to be curious, you’re not going to have any expectations. And if you’re both mature then any other person’s a good person you might even end up being friends, and a lot of people still meet friends through friends, and is that so bad?