A thought for the day about something a lot of people are guilty of (and, let’s be honest here, women are actually worse at this). I’m talking about thinking too far ahead when just starting to date someone.
All of us have ideas of our ideal relationship. In fact, I’ve come across women who had their whole life worked out, from every minute detail of their wedding day to the way their house would look, the names of their children. All that was missing was the husband, a husband without any ideas or character of his own, one might assume, or he may want to have a say in the way his life unfolds.
While this may be an extreme example of what happens when you take materialism to the extreme and try and adapt your love life to it, you’ll find that this sort of jumping ahead is all too common in the world of dating. Men are thought to generally be more relaxed about such things, but can be just as guilty of having unrealistic ideals of what women should be like