Women Crave Bad Boys More Than Nice Guys
If you’re not having much luck with always being overly nice so women will like you, you might want to read this entire article and see which traits you can incorporate into your personality
The Bad Boy Is:
- The guy who effortlessly gets the girls you dream about having.
- The guy women fantasize about and will practically do anything for.
- The guy who sweeps the woman you’ve always wanted off of her feet, makes her deepest sexual fantasies come true, breaks her heart, and then has her missing and calling him for the next 10 years.
We’ve heard of extreme bad boys with a dark side and really negative traits such as lawbreaking, physical and verbal abuse, drug use, abandoning responsibility, and even killing people – but these are not the type of “bad boys” were focusing on or talking about in this article.
We’re focusing on the NOT SO VIOLENT AND DANGEROUS bad boys who women find irresistible.
More specifically, 37 bad boy traits that cause women to see you as irresistible!
Traits so powerful they turn her on to the point she almost has no control of her emotions and behavior.
Traits so powerful she feels a deep and strong attraction for you even if her friends and family don’t like you or tell her “she can do better”.
99% of being a bad boy is a state of mind.
A Lot of Nice Guys FAIL MISERABLY at Trying to Look Like a Bad Boy:
- They get tattoos
- A crazy haircut
- Tough boots and the jeans
- A necklace, leather bracelets, and/or chained wallet
- They walk around with a serious face and try to look at tough as possible
But the most important aspect of being a bad boy is usually missing – the mindset!.
Having an attitude of a bad boy might help a little bit, but the attitude won’t get you the results with women you’re looking for.
If you have the mindset of a bad boy, the attitude, style, and outer appearance naturally follows.
Did You Know?
In the 50’s, Marlon Brando and James Dean brought a whole new level of being a bad boy to the big screen in movies like A Streetcar Named Desire and Rebel Without a Cause and women simply couldn’t handle the “emotions” and “feelings” coming up for them as they watched the movie.
They reported feeling strong “sexual urges” and physical responses they weren’t used to!
Even though Marlon Brando and James Dean are long gone, women STILL obsess and fantasize about being with them or meeting a man just like them!
Now why is this?
Being a bad boy, or at least possessing powerful and attractive bad boy traits, cuts straight through the bullshit and pushes her “attraction button” so hard she’s literally at a loss for words and has a hard time controlling her emotions and feelings around you.
It flips her “attraction switch” and she has NO IDEA how to turn it off.
If you want to get “flipping her attraction switch” down to a science, get my eBook How to Quit Being a Loser With Women.
How Does Being a Bad Boy Apply to You?
These 37 traits women are highly attracted to are like tools you can whip out and use anytime you’re interacting with women, just dating, and even in a relationship and marriage.
If you’re able to fully understand these traits and internalize them, it sets you apart from the “average” guys she meets and interacts with and you’ll be able to spark an attraction inside of her that is so deep, strong, and fast, that she’ll have no idea what hit her.
She won’t be able to explain the emotions and feelings she’s experiencing and she’ll say things like:
“There’s something about you… it’s different.”
“I’m sorry, I feel like I’m throwing myself at you. Am I being too forward?”
“I don’t meet guys like you very often.”
“I’m sure you have a girlfriend or wife. There’s no way you’re single.”
“I’m feeling things I never feel this soon after meeting someone.”
I’m NOT making this up!
Ready for women to start saying these things to you?
Let’s learn what makes bad boys powerfully irresistible to women and how you can be seen in the same light.
1. Bad Boys Do What They Want, When They Want
Women don’t want you always asking their permission to do things, say things, or even just be yourself.
Bad boys don’t ask for permission.
Better yet, bad boys get permission from themselves.
They don’t ask “is it ok” questions to women or anyone else.
Ex: Is it ok if I hold your hand?
If bad boys want something, they go and get it.
If they feel like doing something, they do it.
They don’t wait around for the go ahead.
Women who are used to nice guys asking permission and needing approval love when they meet a guy who does what he wants and when he wants.
(I’m NOT talking about taking advantage of women or rape. There are clear moral and ethical boundaries with women and dating.)
2. Bad Boys Don’t Pretend
I’ve noticed nice guys have the bad habit of pretending to be someone or something that they’re not.
They pretend to be a lot nicer, sweeter, cooler, or more charming than they actually are so they have a better chance of women liking them.
They act one way with their friends and family and the second an attractive woman comes around, they turn into a completely different person.
Bad boys don’t change their personality to accommodate whoever is in the room.
They just are who they are and don’t care how anyone takes it.
This level of authenticity is extremely attractive to women and it communicates maturity, composure, and honesty.
3. Bad Boys Possess the Daring Confidence Women Love and Want
Bad boys’ natural confidence originates comes from a deep and internal place instead of an external place.
It doesn’t come from from money, women, clothes, cool phones, cool cars, cool houses, etc.
Strip the “external” stuff away and a bad boy will still be just as confident.
This confidence comes from a more primal and natural place and since it comes from the inside and not the outside, it’s more solid, authentic, and powerful. It can’t be faked and it communicates you’re sure of yourself, who you are, and where you’re going.
Women gobble this confidence up and can’t get enough of it.
4. Bad Boys Have Confident Body Language
This natural confidence is apparent in every aspect of the bad boy’s life – especially in his body language.
Bad boys don’t have poor body language and they physically carry themselves well.
They don’t slouch, hunch, or communicate that they’re insecure, unsure of themselves, afraid of women, or that they care what everyone thinks.
The body language of a bad boy always communicates, “I am a high-status male. I’m confident, attractive, sure of myself, and I do what I want, I get what I want, and no one is going to change that or tell me otherwise.”
Because of the bad boy “mindset”, the body language naturally follows.
Put a bad boy in a group of other “average” guys and 9 out of 10 times women are going to find the bad boy more physically attractive because of his body language and how he holds and presents himself.
5. Bad Boys Do Everything With Purpose
Average and “nice guys” tend to mess up with women by having the habit of “accidentally” making certain movements and gestures or they’ll accidentally say something that wasn’t quite what they meant or in line with what they were thinking.
Bad boys don’t have this problem.
If a bad boy makes a movement or gesture, it’s because he wanted to.
If he says something, it’s because he meant to.
Bad boys think things through quickly and then execute.
Nothing is by accident.
When you’re around women, start moving and speaking with purpose instead of by accident.
Think things through before you do them and only do things intentionally.
When you move and speak with purpose, it’s attractive and communicates confidence.
6. Bad Boys Aren’t Scared
Another reason bad boys do things with purpose is because they aren’t scared.
They aren’t scared or worried of what a woman will think of them or how she’ll react.
They aren’t afraid of what might happen.
If something comes up or happens, they’ll deal with it then.
Nice guys are scared to death to reach over and randomly grab a woman’s hand, pull her in and kiss her, or even get a little touchy/feely.
Bad boys aren’t scared at all – and most of the time, they’re not consciously thinking about it!
They just do it.
If a bad boy wants to hold her hand, he reaches over and grabs her hand.
If he wants to kiss her, he doesn’t “bitch out”. He grabs her, pulls her in, and kisses her.
If he wants to touch her leg, back, or even her butt, he’s going to do it.
If it doesn’t go as he intended, he doesn’t make a big deal of it.
If she’s attracted to you, then she doesn’t mind, and even likes it, when you’re assertive and aren’t scared to take things to the next level with her.
When you start being weird and afraid, she’ll back off and the attraction will begin to fade.
7. Bad Boys Do Everything At Their Own Pace
A bad boy isn’t going to rush, move faster, or move slower just to make someone happy.
He does what he wants, when he wants, and at his own pace.
If he’s moving fast, then she better keep up.
If he’s moving slow, then she better learn some patience.
Move at your own pace. Don’t slow down or speed up just to get her approval.
Once again, this communicates confidence and you do what you want, how you want.
8. Bad Boys Don’t Attempt to “Fit In”
Nice guys have a hard time just being themselves and they often want to be part of the “cool crowd” or the “in crowd” because they think that’s the right thing to do.
They think that’s the “attractive” thing to do.
They follow trends, fashion, and style so they’ll be seen as a “cool guy” or part of a certain crowd.
They also follow trends of behavior and sayings so they’re more likely to fit in and be accepted.
They have this fantasy that women will see them and say, “Oh wow, you’re one of those cool guys! Here’s my number!”
Good examples of attempting to fit in are using the latest slang terms to sound cool, identifying with social circles, posting selfies, and seeking approval on social media from people whose opinion shouldn’t matter.
Bad boys don’t care about this stuff.
They dress how they want and don’t give care what anyone thinks about it.
They behave according to how they feel and aren’t influenced by outside opinions.
Lose your need to “fit in” and just live your life by what your gut is telling you.
She doesn’t dream of dating and marrying a “follower”.
She unconsciously wants a guy who does as he pleases and is happy with his place or status in the world.
9. Bad Boys Don’t Flinch
Nice guys are timid and shy away from any kind of controversy or conflict.
They’re afraid of something really bad happening to them.
Bad boys don’t flinch or blink when it comes to this stuff because if you get stupid with a bad boy, he’s going to get stupid right back.
Get in his face and he’s going to get right back in your face.
Let me be clear – I’m not promoting fighting, violence, or saying it’s OK but the truth is we live in a violent and dangerous world. As a man, it’s crucial to have the ability to stand up for yourself and others. You can’t live your life being a victim who cries to mama about everything – eventually, you’re going to have to stand your ground when something happens.
She’s attracted to the man who isn’t afraid to protect himself or her.
She want’s a man who won’t chicken out in the face of adversity and conflict.
So when conflict arises and you’re right in the middle of it, just stand strong and deal with whatever happens instead of running away.
10. Bad Boys Don’t Need Approval
Bad boys wake up in the morning and live their lives to make themselves happy.
You might think it’s a little self-centered, but that’s OK.
A little self-centered is more attractive than trying to please everyone.
They’re not focusing their lives on making women happy and seeking their approval.
They don’t care whether or not they have the approval of others.
As long as they approve of themselves, that’s all that matters.
Start approving of yourself.
Drop the approval seeking stuff and quit living your life to just to make women happy.
If seeking approval and making others happy before yourself is your life’s goal, you’ll NEVER be happy.
11. Bad Boys Make Up Their Mind
It’s important to be decisive and to not beat around the bush too much when making decisions – especially important ones.
Bad boys are pretty quick to make up their mind about what they want.
Being able to quickly make up your mind and stick your decision is being sure of yourself and having confidence in your abilities.
If you usually have a hard time making up or mind or hesitate to make decisions, you might want to work on this.
Women are attracted to and appreciate the leadership qualities of men who are able to make up their mind, make decisions, and aren’t afraid to stick to them.
12. Bad Boys Aren’t Victims
Bad boys don’t allow themselves to become victims and they don’t sit around feeling sorry for themselves when something unfortunate happens.
They adapt and overcome.
Nice guys tend to whine, bitch, and complain about what’s not fair, what went wrong, or something not going their way.
Nice guys tend to cry to their families and friends about what upsets them.
Not bad boys…
They suck it up, act like a man, push through it, and move on with life.
They know a man in control of his emotions is a much better and more attractive option to women than a man who becomes a victim of his emotions.
Women aren’t attracted to men who cry, whine, bitch, complain, and moan instead of dealing with it and moving forward.
It’s weak and unattractive.
When something tough and emotionally distressing comes up, instead of seeking pity and acting like a victim, make the conscious decision to take the high road and deal with it.
Make the decision to adapt and overcome and not throw a pity party.
13. Bad Boys Think For Themselves
Bad boys don’t need to “fit in” because they’ve learned to think for themselves.
In the field of psychology, having an Internal Locus of Control, something I cover in my eBook How to Quit Being a Loser With Women, means not looking “externally” to see if you’re on the right track and dressing, thinking, and behaving like most people and instead looking “internally” so to see if everyone else around YOU is on the right track.
Bad boys naturally have a very strong and natural Internal Locus of Control because they usually don’t follow “the crowd”.
Start thinking for yourself.
Quit looking around to see what you should be doing and look inside to see if you’re on the right track and if those around you are on the right track.
By doing this, others will naturally look up to you as a mentor and leader and women will be more likely to feel attraction for you.
14. Bad Boys Aren’t Followers
A strong Internal Locus of Control is a HUGE trait of a leader.
It’s hard to be a leader and to attract the women you want when you’re constantly looking around for clues on how you should be behaving and living your life.
When you have it figured out what the right track is for you, and you’re actually on it, you’ll no longer be seen as a follower but instead someone who should be followed.
WHO GETS MORE FEMALE ATTENTION?
The guy on the bench or the quarterback?
The lead singer of a band or the guy on the piano?
The president of the company or guy in the mail room?
The club/bar owner or the guy picking up glasses and bottles?
It’s the leaders!
Become more of a leader in your own life and resist the urge to follow.
15. Bad Boys Are Brutally Honest
A bad boy says what’s on his mind and tells you how it is.
Nice guys feel the need to lie or be dishonest they value the approval of a woman they like more than integrity and honesty.
Bad boys are better at looking women in the eyes and being brutally honest rather than lying.
It’s better for her to be mad about your honesty than to be pissed at you for you not having the balls to tell the truth in the first place.
Even though the truth might upset her, she’s more likely to respect and trust you because of your honesty.
It’s hard to shake off the reputation of being a liar.
16. Bad Boys Make Themselves Happy First
We all know someone who goes out of their way to make others happy and neglects their own happiness.
You can explain to them the need to focus on themselves FIRST so they can become stronger before they help others, but they don’t listen.
Their refusal to hear you out or even comprehend what you’re saying causes them to stay stuck, remain unhappy, and always have “problems”.
Bad boys take care of their own needs first before attending to the needs of others.
If you care about the happiness of others way more than your own, it’s a good quality to have. But it’s equally important to start making yourself happy first.
If you can make yourself strong first, you’ll be able to help more in return.
Make sure your needs are met FIRST and then give your attention to those around you.
I’m not telling you to be a self-centered jerk.
I’m recommending to attend to your own needs first before attending to those around you.
It’s like the emergency procedures in an in-flight emergency – put the mask on yourself first so you’re able to help more people around you.
17. Bad Boys Are Passionate
Another thing women love about bad boys is they’re very intense and passionate about what they do.
They don’t half-ass it and they put all of their energy and focus into whatever it is they’re doing – and that includes attracting women.
Bad boys display more sexual energy and passion towards women they’re interested in.
Do you think women read erotic novels because they’re boring a dull?
Erotic novels are full of passionate and intense men that women DREAM of meeting and by the way, most of these erotic novels have a bad boy as one of the main characters.
Coincidence? I think not.
Look at 50 Shades of Grey.
One of the most popular erotic novels ever written and the main character is the ultimate bad boy.
A bit intense and a sexual freak, but still a bad boy.
Need I say more?
18. Bad Boys Think Highly of Themselves
A bad boy doesn’t appreciate negative talk about him because most bad boys value themselves and don’t hold a poor image of themselves in their minds.
Because they think highly of themselves, they won’t put up with anyone trying to paint them in a different light.
WHAT’S MORE ATTRACTIVE?
A confident woman who knows she’s attractive or a shy, geeky, woman with low self-esteem?
The confident woman of course.
It’s no different from her point of view.
She’s far more attracted to a man who thinks highly of himself and knows his value and place in the world.
19. Bad Boys Go After What They Want
Bad boys don’t say and think, “Man I WISH I could talk to that girl… she’s hot!” or, “Man I wish I could date her…”
They get out there and actually do it!
The bad boy gets outside of his comfort zone. If he wants her number, he gets it.
If he wants to see her again, he calls her and tells her he wants to see her.
He gets over his shyness, nervousness, or whatever is standing in the way of making it happen.
If he wants something, there is nothing standing in his way.
Develop the same mindset.
When you want something, don’t sit around thinking about it.
Don’t allow fear to stop you from taking action.
Get up and move towards it as soon as you can.
20. Bad Boys Don’t Get Played
By “played”, I mean getting your heart broken because you’re too blind to see what’s actually going on.
Bad boys have experience with women.
They know the “game”.
They know when something isn’t right.
Beginners and nice guys fall in love way too fast and get their hearts stomped to pieces.
Not bad boys.
When the bad boy meets a woman he likes, he’s not going “all in” because he knows in today’s world, there’s a high possibility she has other men in her life and not just him.
I’m not accusing women of promiscuity – I’m just saying women aren’t as “old fashioned” anymore. They like to keep their options open.
Nothing wrong with that.
Bad boys are careful, observant, and know not to put their heart on the line.
They play it by ear and are always on the lookout for red flags that mean trouble.
21. Bad Boys Handle Their Problems
Bad boys don’t sit around and let their problems grow out of control.
They handle their problems – as all men should.
Women like guys who handle their problems instead of sitting on them until they become too much to handle.
In your own life, handle your problems immediately and don’t let them become worse.
When a problem arises, fix it right away and get rid of it.
If your life is riddled with problems and you aren’t fixing them, you’re going to have a hard time attracting the women you want.
22. Bad Boys Know How To Be Sexy
Guys who are “too nice” don’t know how to be sexy.
Being “sexy” comes naturally to bad boys and they’re able to make it look easy.
They naturally know how to dress, stand, talk, walk, and what facial expressions to make that trigger attraction inside the women they want.
When they know it works and they do them repeatedly, these things become unconscious, second-nature, and the new “norm” to them.
Therefore, being sexy is essentially effortless.
23. Bad Boys Aren’t Clowns
We all want to make women laugh but some of us overdo it at times.
Bad boys know how and when to be funny but it’s not one of their main concerns.
They’re not “funny” guys.
The “serious guy” appeal seems to work just fine and a bad boy will only say something funny if it’s funny to him.
He won’t say it to get a reaction or to get approval.
It’s VERY IMPORTANT to understand this.
He knows he already has her approval and doesn’t feel the need to go out of his way by being a clown and joking around too much.
In my eBook How to Quit Being a Loser With Women, I go into detail on how to be seen as funnier and more likable.
24. Bad Boys Dominate
Bad boys aren’t known for being submissive cowards and they’re usually the most dominant in any group of men.
- They’re not likely to take shit from anyone.
- Others watch their behavior around a bad boy as to not piss him off.
- They usually get what they want and when they want it.
- They usually tell others what to do and they do it.
Bad boys don’t submit and women aren’t big fans of scared and submissive men.
Instead, they flock to the bad boy because he’s dominant, doesn’t submit, and is usually in charge.
25. Bad Boys Aren’t Sorry
Women hate very few things more than a dude who’s constantly apologizing.
Nice guys apologize too much:
- He accidentally bumps her – he apologizes.
- He makes a joke and she doesn’t think it’s as funny as him – he apologizes.
- He gets a little ballsy – he apologizes.
- He tries to hold her hand and she’s not ready – he apologizes.
- Shows up 2 minutes late to get her – he apologizes.
- Doesn’t answer her call or takes too long to text back – he apologizes.
Apologizing too much makes you look weak and she’s not fond of that.
Bad boys won’t apologize for small things:
- He accidentally bumps into a woman or touches her – he’ll just look at her and assume she liked it.
- He makes a joke that he thinks if funnier than she does – he’ll tell her to work on her sense of humor.
- He gets ballsy – thinks she’s kinda lame for not getting ballsy back.
- Grabs her hand and she pulls away – he ignores it like it never happened.
See the difference?
- He doesn’t seek her approval by saying he’s sorry for everything.
- He doesn’t need to apologize for being a bad boy who’s rough around the edges.
- She either likes him or she doesn’t. If she doesn’t like him, her loss.
Being less apologetic than most “nice guys” is a powerful mindset.
There’s no need to always be sorry.
Become comfortable in your own skin and don’t feel you need to apologize for who you are.
26. Unphased – Bad Boys Don’t Care
The most powerful and common trait all bad boys share is:
THEY SIMPLY DON’T CARE AS MUCH AS NICE GUYS DO.
Caring too much what everyone thinks doesn’t make you a bad boy.
Bad boys can care less what anyone thinks, especially beautiful women.
He is unphased by any opinion that isn’t his own and you need to be the same way.
Caring too much is making you unattractive and pushing you into the “nice guy” category.
27. Bad Boys Are Unpredictable
Women don’t say, “I love being around him because I always know what he’s going to do next!”
She’s attracted to unpredictability.
As long as you’re not going nuts, being abusive, and smacking women around, then unpredictability is good for your dating life.
If she can predict what you’re going to do next, she’s probably bored and thinking of ways to “politely” let you down.
It’s like watching a dull movie 20 times – it’s boring, predictable, and you’re uninterested.
Bad boys are like that movie you can’t stop watching because it’s exciting and unpredictable.
It makes great movies and also attracts women.
28. Bad Boys Do Their Own Thing
As we’ve covered, bad boys don’t look for someone to copy and for clues on how to think, behave, or live their life.
They do their own thing and aren’t concerned with anyone admiring or following them.
They do what they feel they should be doing at that particular time without the need for approval from women and others.
They follow their heart, listen to what their gut is telling them, and move to the beat of their own drum.
29. Bad Boys Don’t Compare Themselves to Others
On top of doing their own thing, they don’t wish they were a little more like other men.
Bad boys look in the mirror and say, “Awesome. I’m happy with who I am.”
Nice guys often compare themselves to higher status and more dominant males and wish they had their life, looks, charm, etc.
The bad boy doesn’t think this way.
He looks at other men and wonders why they aren’t on his level and thinking the way he does.
30. The Bad Boy Leaves Her Wanting More
Bad boys often cause women to fall madly in love and then leaves because he can’t give her what she truly wants.
As cruel or mean as it sounds, she’s left wanting him for years and years to come.
Sometimes even the rest of her life!
Although this is an extreme example, I’ve seen it happen time and time again.
The point is the bad boy leaves her wanting more.
- He doesn’t milk the date until it’s dry.
- He doesn’t stay on the phone until she’s bored.
- He doesn’t give women everything they want.
- He doesn’t pour his heart out too soon in the relationship.
Most bad boys almost NEVER reveal all of their true feelings to women because they know that keeping their cards close keeps HER close.
They give her ALMOST ENOUGH, and then leave without giving her all she wants.
This multiplies the attraction she feels and intensifies her desire for him.
If women always leave first, it might be a sign you’re giving way too much of yourself too soon.
31. Rebel – Bad Boys Bend and Break the Rules
Since bad boys love to do whatever it is they want, they usually aren’t fond of laws and rules either.
To clarify, not all bad boys break the law and you don’t have to go jail or prison to prove that you have the bad boy mentality.
I said they’re just not fond of the laws or rules – not idiots.
They don’t like being told what to, when to do it, and how to do it.
It feels like being a slave to society.
Some think following all the rules to a fault is a cowardly way to live and some rules are meant to be bent or broken.
Women love men who live on the edge and don’t conform to a standard of thinking or behavior.
32. Bad Boys Don’t Live to Kiss Women’s Feet
Remember how bad boys put their own happiness first?
It includes not kissing her ass and trying to make her the happiest woman alive.
Nice guys focus on going to work to make money, using that money to buy things or experiences, and then using those things and experiences to persuade women to like and approve of them.
Nice guys also spend a lot of time thinking about the newest, coolest, or sneakiest way they can manipulate women to get some approval.
When they have her attention, they lock their lips on her ass or feet hoping she’ll give them a tiny ounce of attention and approval.
This isn’t the bad boy’s mindset.
He doesn’t spend his time scheming on how to get women to like him.
He just lives his life and when he’s around women, he relaxes and has fun.
He doesn’t kiss feet, kiss ass, or seek approval.
If she likes him, cool.
If not, oh well… no big deal.
Simple as that.
33. Nobody’s Fool – Bad Boys Aren’t Gullible
Bad boys don’t fall for tricks, excuses, and games that nice guys do.
She’ll say, “Umm… how about you give me YOUR number” and the nice guy will give her his number not knowing she’s never going to call him and it’s a trick to get him to go away.
She’ll cancel a date three times with three different random excuses and the nice guy will just keep asking her out.
She’ll play games, be flaky, sneaky, and seem dishonest, and the nice guy will just keep thinking of how beautiful she is and he’ll overlook everything else.
This doesn’t happen with bad boys.
If she asks for his number instead, he knows she’s probably telling him to get lost.
If she cancels on him more than once or twice, she’s a waste of his time.
If she is always being mysterious, flaky, sneaky, dishonest, and playing games, he’ll move on because he knows he can do better.
Bad boys who attract a lot of women are smart, experienced, know what they want, and are able to spot B.S., excuses, and games from a mile away.
Since she’s used to meeting nice guys and guys she perceives as “losers“, she’s shockingly surprised when she meets a bad boy who knows better.
34. Mysterious – Bad Boys Don’t Sell Themselves
A nice guy feels the need to sell her reasons she should pick him or be romantically interested and to convince her of what a great guy he is not realizing she doesn’t care because it doesn’t cause her to “feel” attraction.
Bad boys know selling themselves actually hurtsinstead of helps.
If she’s feeling attraction, she doesn’t care about anything else you have going on. You don’t have to sell yourself.
They know that she doesn’t care very much about their car, bike, job, hobbies, etc.
When she’s feeling a lot of attraction, she just wants to hang out and spend time with you and the other stuff you’re trying to “sell” her on doesn’t matter.
35. Bad Boys Don’t Prioritize Women
Contrary to popular belief and what comes out of their mouth, most women don’t want to be the center of any man’s universe.
They only want to be part of it.
They want some love, attention, affection, and then they want him to do his own thing and focus on other stuff that’s important to him.
Making her the center of your universe and the most important thing in your life will only annoy her and scare her away.
With a bad boy, she’ll practically be begging for his attention because he makes other things in his life his priorities. Not her.
The guys who focus on other things in their lives instead of only women usually ALWAYS have women calling, texting, and wanting their attention.
36. Bad Boys Know How to Be Cool
The bad boy is always cool.
From the way he walks and talks all the way to the way he dresses, behaves, and responds.
He just has “cool” encoded into his DNA.
It’s part of who he is and most it is totally unconscious.
Nice guys get weird, nervous, timid, and anxious around women.
Nice guys just don’t know how to be cool.
Since bad boys are always relaxed no matter where they are, none of this stuff happens for them.
And if it does, they get it under control pretty quick.
37. L.I.V.I.N – Bad Boys Enjoy Their Life
Bad boys never let life get the best of them.
The bad boy can relax more than a sloth and have more fun than a 21 drunk kid in Vegas on his birthday.
They know how to have fun, take everything in, and just enjoy the moments we call life.
When you incorporate these 37 traits into your life, you’ll be enjoying life as well.
You’ll have less girl problems, less anxiety, and probably more friends than you can count.
Bad boys have always been and probably always will be the envy of nice guys who just don’t get it.
Being a bad boy isn’t the only way to get women, BUT 99% of guys who are excellent at attracting and keeping women around have many bad boy traits that nice guys lack.
You don’t have to be “bad” to attract women, you just have to know what is and isn’t attractive to them.
You can be a “good guy” with these attractive bad boy traits and still have the same success and results with women as bad boys.
Incorporate these 37 bad boy traits into your thinking and behavior and watch your dating life transform.
It won’t happen overnight.
But the more you make these traits a part of your natural behavior, the more success you’ll have the women you really want.
Thanks for reading,
– Marc Summers
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