It takes 13 milliseconds to determine if someone is hot, which, really, works both to your advantage and disadvantage. Of course it’s easier when you’re at a party or bar to determine the girl you want to spend your time hitting on. But it also means women are judging you in less than one split-second. So what can you do to make sure you’re looking good during that critical first impression?
As a general rule, smiling makes you more attractive when you’re looking directly at someone, according to this article from Psychological Science. So when you’re facing someone, smile. That said, ladies, smile. Guys… well, think twice.
While happiness is one of the most attractive female emotional expressions, it’s one of the least attractive in males; in contrast, pride is shown to be the most attractive male expression, and one of the least attractive in women, according to this paper.
Want to improve your smile? Smile slower. It’s proven to be perceived as more authentic.
Guys, you need to move right, keep cool (women find low-stress men much more attractive, since this trait signifies the ability to be calm in times of crisis, says this study) and be confident (contrary to what you may think, being humble actually makes you seem less confident and more weak, according to the journal Psychology of Men & Masculinity).
And you know those obnoxious jerks who constantly lift weights, show off their fancy cars and throw lots of money around? Well, this study says that stuff works. At least for one-night stands; if you’re looking for a woman you’ll want to spend more than one night with, of course, we wouldn’t recommend it.
Sorry to break it to you, bud, but if you’re shorter than average you’ll have to earn $175,000 a year more than your six-foot-tall competition in order to have the same cachet with women, according to The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement by David Brooks. The upside? You don’t have much to worry about if you’re tall. And there are always invisible heels.
Guys: Keep your voice deep and dominant. Not only is it more attractive to women, but it’s also a strong predictor of the number of sexual partners you’ve had, says this paper (which, let’s be honest, women pay close attention to as an indicator of your abilities). Also of note, men are subconsciously more attracted to women with more feminine voices (perceived as more flirtatious). Don’t let that sweet voice get your brain all mixed up, now…
Yes, both in the sense of encouragement (we’ve already seen that women like happy, non-stressed men) as well as in the purely physical act of literally looking upwards. But could it really be this simple? This study shows that male faces tilted up were judged to be more masculine, and tilted down judged to be less masculine. So it can’t hurt you with the ladies.
Guys with stubble seem smarter and more sociable, found judg.me, after thousands of photos were uploaded and judged by users — and since sociability is related to confidence and women like confident women, it also means you’ll be perceived as more attractive to women. If you don’t believe us, a study published in Evolution and Human Behavior found that women prefer men with beards — specifically, 10-day-old beards. And if you’re trying to nail down “the one,” men with full-beards were perceived as better and more protective fathers.
Lastly, women actually rated smooth faces as the least attractive.
Different color clothing says different things about you; studies show red seems to mean sex. It makes men more attractive to women. It makes women more attractive to men. It even helps hitchikers get picked up. According to this paper, wearing red also makes women perceive men as higher-status than they may actually be, which is in turn attractive; however, the influence of red appears to be specific to women’s romantic attraction to men — the color doesn’t influence men’s perceptions of other men. So, unfortunately, you won’t get any closer to that promotion by wearing that red sweater you’ve got in the bottom of your closet.
Beauty sleep? Yeah, it’s real. Get some. Sleep-deprived people appear less healthy, less attractive and more tired compared with when they’re well-rested, according to this study. So if you’re wondering why you’re not getting any numbers this weekend, it’s probably because you’re better off going home, sleeping it off, and trying again the next night. The girls you’re going for are more sensitive to your sleep-related facial cues than you think, my friend.